A github interaction I won't link to: **me**: this is broken on windows, here...

@mistersql

A github interaction I won't link to:
**me**: this is broken on windows, here is a fix, explanation for why it is broken and a suggestion that you merge the github actions that are sitting in pending MRs so you can actually see failures & establish a common reality with your users.
**them**: well it works on my machine. Sounds like a you problem?
**them**: well, would you like to make another MR that includes windows?

Self-replies

So many levels of skills needed
- how to fix the code
- how to be nice to maintainers
- how to be nice to people who don't got social skills either
- how to stay calm